Is it time for a change in our social standards when it comes to relationships and pair-bonding. I’m often amazed when people say things that they believe that are in the best interest of their social standards, whatever the reason or source they are citing, they insist that these are done for a reason. I asked for who, or to what benefit
some of these social stands benefit and prevent, but they seem to quickly cite passages from the Christian Bible, Obscured laws and Folk lore–never answering the question as to why. The main target are women, and how they live and co-exist in society today. Here are some:
The Male should be older than the Female when engaged in a relationship.
The Female should be smaller, i.e., shorter than the Male in a couple.
The Male should have a career, while the Female should prepare for motherhood.
These examples are just the tip of the iceberg of what was discussed from some of the people I have talked to. I really question these ideas because they seem to only benefit one side rather than both. I really believe that we need to expunge these ideas and learned to grow up. Some people I have talked to are so steadfast about these standards that they would actually “shun” those who they believe are in violation of their beliefs. Perhaps there ought to be a law–against them?