Preaching Promiscuity Bastard Style

I was visiting a friend of mine of whom I have not seen for a while. This was one of those unannounced visits. I knocked on the door, he invited me in, and he offered me a tea. But before I go further into this event, I will be purposely leaving many details out, and will not name names. In fact, just the very fact that I am writing this out could spell disaster for some people, especially for my friend. But I do not care because I have taken a stance, and if you read the title, it involves a certain level of promiscuity and adultery, and you should understand why I have posted this. But first, the story.

So we sat down in the living room (I am making this part up) and started talking about the latest gossip and how everyone is doing in and around town. About an hour into the visit, my friend suddenly proclaims that I have to leave at 2:00pm. Then he tells me that he is using me as an excuse to tell his wife that he will not be home until late tonight because we are supposedly going to be talking all evening. A certain woman that he met three years before was coming over and they were going out for dinner. He invited her out for dinner!

I was shocked! “What about your wife,” I asked?

He told me not to worry about that. But I could not. Instead I kept hounding him about how wrong this was on so many levels. But he continued on, totally unabated by the terrible act that he was about to commit. At 2:00pm he asked me to leave so that he could get ready and they would meet. So I left.

This got me thinking while I was walking home from his place about how we are monogamist creatures, and that our social structure is totally based on this idea. I really had a hard time putting this into perspective. But then my mind focused on purl marriage. That popped into my head as I remembered my studies in social law, looking at the Mormons in Bountiful, British Columbia as a case study, and the current legal challenges that are going on there. These are people, the Mormons, are fighting a legal battle in Canada to have the right to have purl marriages as they claim it is part of there social order. But this argument does not hold water to my friend’s dilemma as his wife did not enter into this agreement to be shared, or share with, another woman.

I am still numb as I cannot believe that a man could throw his marriage out just to search the green grass on the other side of the river?

Film Crew in Fort Langley

On my way to the Post Office there were people and film and set equipment everywhere. The sure signs of a film being shot there. I guess becuase of the rain, which happens from time to time here in Fort Langley, they were waiting it out when I walked by.

According to my sources, which are unconfirmed, this film is called, ” The Dibbuk Box.” This area that they were at today was along the corner of Mary Avenue and Church Street, in Fort Langley, where it appears to be a car crash scene, of the aftermath of one, along Church Street.

I also know for sure that tomorrow (Tuesday march 22, 2011) they are shutting down Glover Road by the Sushi Restaurant for a major film-shooting of a car crash scene there. I have a Notice of Filming for that here with me. I can say that this is for “The Dibbuk Box,” according to that news letter.

It seems like a while since we had a film crew working in Fort Langley. I thought it had more to do with the economy, but according to my friend, who works in the business, it is more to do with the season and weather than anything else. Still, I am sort of happy to see them back. They do not bother me, and it is kind of exciting to see them here. I have met some very famous people over the years do to the filming here in town.

The above photo is the actual carnage on the street. There is a basket ball along the side of the road by the white picket fence, so I am assuming that this was a scene that involved a child getting hit by a passing car while chasing that ball. Everyone is standing around becuase of the rain.

Film Issues in Fort Langley

UPDATE: I just heard that the person who was the coordinator had been told that she will keep her position. A friend of mind, who knows a friend, through a friend, found out late today about this. Please disregard the rest of this post!

I was at the Post Office on Tuesday when I saw this petition posted on the wall inside. I never thought much about until I started talking to some friends and other residence about this. I quickly learned that the person who is the coordinator for Fort Langley, with the film companies, does play a vital role.

I discovered that availability and knowledge base are the two key components that will be lost once this position is replaced outside of Fort Langley.  Knowledge base, in the from of contact with residences, and having someone from within the community, means that the footprint for networking through the community is more efficient than through a central office in Langley Township. And availability means that the time frame for people from within the community, and the film industry, have a wider timetable to work with than someone who is regulated through office hours.

Perhaps the root cause is strictly downsizing to saving money by centralising job positions, but in sight of this, a petition is posted at the Fort Langley Post Office. It seems to be gathering numerous signatures from residence.

Here is what the Letter of Petition says:

Filming in Fort Langley

On February 28th/2011 at the Township of Langley’s Council Meeting the Engineering Department will be proposing changes to the current filming guidelines for Fort Langley.

One of the changes proposed is that film companies will not be required to retain the services of the Fort Langley Film Coordinator but to have filming handled  at the Township level.

Given the uniqueness of our community and the unusually high volume of filming it has been proven that an on site film coordinator has become essential. This ensures that projects run smoothly with the least amount of inconvenience and interruption to business owners and residents.

If you feel that this position is valuable to our community please support by writing to one or all of the following.

Shirley Stewart, executive director bia@fortlangley.com

Mark Bakken, Cheif Administrator, Township of Langley mbakken@tol.bc.ca

(sic)Councilors:

Jorden Bateman
Steven Ferguson
Charlie Fox
Mel Kositsky
Bab Long
Kim Richter
Bev Dornan
Grant Ward

Mayor, Rich Green   mayorcouncil@tol.ca

(This date may change).”

Here is the photo

Fort Langley Librarian Retiring

Today is an emotional day at the little library in Fort Langley. Mary Marquette, a person of whom I have know for many years, will be retiring effective after today. Fort Langley will be loosing one of its long-time icons of public services, and a good friend in the library.

Many people will be coming out to the library to see her off today. I popped in right around the library opened this morning to say hi, and to see if the rumours were true that she was in fact leaving us today. She enthusiastically confirmed this.

For me, Mary will be the person who welcomed everyone with her warm smile and enthusiastic greetings, no matter who walked through the doors of the library. She is the person who loves her job, and her intimate knowledge of the people of Fort Langley, and beyond, which in my mind, makes her one of the keystone people of this town. She is friend to all, and she probably knows all of us, alphabetically.

She bestowed the power of reading, good company, and friendship, to many people both young and old in the community. She has also made the library a friendly place to be where all are welcomed, and encouraged the pursuit of knowledge and connection to so many. To the children, and the avid readers, she was there, ready to assist whenever possible.

We will all still see Mary around town, in her civilian capacity, as it appears that she has no plans of moving.

If you are reading this today, before the library closes at 5:00pm, please come in, as there will be refreshments served, and lots of folks at the library to wish Mary all the best.

Missing the Fort Langley IGA

I took my usual walk around town today, from the Post Office, then around back over to Mavis, then across Glover Road, then home. I stopped off to see the progress of the IGA site, and see how that is coming along.

The site is almost cleared of the building rubble, and the rotting food left behind, from the fire back in January. The workers, the clearing and excavating company, have almost got all the building marital excavated and hauled away. There are very few remnants of the former site left. A few bushes, and a post in the ground, but nothing recognisable from the old store.

I want the store back. I miss it, and the people who worked there.

I ran into a couple of the former employees of the old IGA store. One is working in Walnut Grove, while the other is still taking time off since the fire and is going back to school. They were both sad, yet were focused on the now, since the store burnt down, so life goes on for both of them. But they do miss it. They said that they miss the customers the most, and are greeted when ever they are seen by some of those former customers. “People always stop and talk and ask how I’m doing now that I have no job,” one of them said.

So, here is hoping that they rebuild soon!